Being Able To Let Go
I love motorbikes – especially Harley Davidson bikes, although Triumph and Indian come in a pretty close 2nd. The sound, the look of bikes, biker clothes, lifestyle, and the connection of being out on the open road with the wind in your face and freedom.
For many years I held visions of being a rider. In the past couple of years, I have obtained my learners' permit (2 times) and have taken riding lessons. I have been holding on to this vision of myself as a rider on a stunning Harley Sportster for decades. I'm in awe of those that ride and possess a lifestyle that I am drawn to.
Recently, during my latest skill 1 and 2 lessons (my 2nd time taking them) in a parking lot in Langley, I realized that being a rider is not for me. I still love bikes, probably always will, but not as a rider. Accepting this and letting go provided me with a great sense of freedom.
Often, we are faced with a dilemma of whether it is about perseverance, patience, confidence, or if it is still something we want? We need to probe our own minds to determine the right decision for ourselves.
Sometimes the bravest thing to do is let go. For me, that was letting go of the dream of being a rider. I know that I was committed to making my dream come true – I studied, committed to learning, and put in the work to learn about bikes and riding. The emphasis from my POV is on trying – pursuing your dreams and goals. They may become realized, or you may discover a different direction that you want to pursue. There is always a fear of being judged by our actions – you cannot let it be a factor in your decision-making.
You are the most important factor.
Often the story we hold onto doesn’t align with the actual narrative. Recognizing this is crucial and you want to make sure that you are not holding onto something that truly doesn't define you. That is freedom!
I will keep my motorcycle helmet, gloves, and jacket in the hope that I can still ride, but it will be in a different seat as a passenger, not a rider – that is okay with me.
🎵 Songs of the Week 🎵
Motorcycle Mama – Neil Young
Born To Be Wild (Easy Rider) – Steppenwolf
“It is okay to walk away from things that no longer serve you. Actually, it’s a necessity.”